Hey Flashbang,
I would be happy to help you with anything you need regarding web design, assuming the offer still stands. I am an avid web designer myself, and I am sure I could help you. I would personally recommend Joomla! as your CMS system, because I believe that it is the most versatile out of all CMS systems. It also has the most widespread support and components/ad-ons available.
As for blogging software, Wordpress should be fine. The support is excellent, as it is very popular. If you are interested or if it applies, for a forum you should use Phpbb. It is extremely reliable and works well - it is what this forum is made of.
Also, any coding issues, questions, or problems you have, feel free to contact me about. I can help you with php, javascript, and html. The above-mentioned programs use those technologies, so any modifications you want to make to the site, you would need to have a basic understanding of these three. I can also help with any server technologies or issues, ftp usage, etc.
You can contact me at : chrismarion at gmx dot com (fix the address)
Hope this helps,
-Chris